The 24-year-old got engaged to her fiancé, Connor, in November 2025
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- Spencer Barbosa shared her nontraditional wedding plans, including skipping a garter toss and opting out of a wedding cake
- The influencer plans to wear a pink dress, have mismatched bridesmaid dresses, and keep her look a surprise until the aisle
- Barbosa and her fiancé, Connor, announced their engagement in November 2025
Spencer Barbosa is planning her wedding her way.
The influencer and content creator, 24, recently shared a TikTok detailing all the things she "will absolutely not be doing" at her upcoming wedding to her fiancé, Connor, whom she has only identified by first name online.
Starting the viral video, Barbosa made it clear she would not be doing a garter toss — especially "in front of my dad.”
She went on to say that a destination wedding is “completely out of the picture," since she doesn't want her wedding to "be somebody else’s financial stress."
"I do not want to do that,” Barbosa highlighted.
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She also doesn’t want kids at her wedding, unless they are a “direct niece or nephew.”
“It is boring for them. It’s not fun for them," she explained. "That does also mean no dogs.”
While first looks have grown in popularity in recent years, giving the bride and groom time to see one another before the actual ceremony, Barbosa wants to keep her look a surprise until she steps foot down the aisle.
"My man can have his first look when I walk down the aisle," she said in the video, which has since garnered 4.5 million views.
She also refuses to be swayed into inviting people she wouldn't otherwise want there, saying, "Unless you're my husband, there's no opinion on who I'm inviting."
Rounding out the list, Barbosa said she doesn't want a wedding cake, plans to wear a pink dress instead of white, will have both her parents walk her down the aisle and prefers the look of mismatched bridesmaid dresses.
“I don’t want to send my friends a link and be like, ‘You have to order this dress, you have to wear it.’ I would rather help them find a certain color that they like and then let them choose the style of dress that they find the most flattering on their body," she said.
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Lastly, she made it clear that she "will not be going on some crazy diet to look completely different by my wedding day.”
“My husband loves me how I am completely and I don’t need to lose 50 lbs by my wedding,” Barbosa said.
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Barbosa has kept many details of her relationship private, but according to past posts, her fiancé works in finance. She previously shared that the two "met at 11 years old" and went to the same high school. The couple was in a long-distance relationship before getting engaged in November 2025.
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