A woman revealed on Reddit that she caught a glimpse of her fiancé’s vows one night
However, he used a descriptor that didn’t apply to her — but did to his ex-girlfriend
When she confronted him about it, he “got defensive”
A woman says she caught her fiancé writing vows that seemed to be about his ex-girlfriend, not her.
On Reddit, the 31-year-old woman explained that she and her 34-year-old fiancé are scheduled to get married in about two months.
The other night, they were both working on their vows when she “accidentally saw part of what he was writing when he left his notebook open.”
“It said: ‘I knew I loved you the moment you stepped into that coffee shop wearing that yellow dress,'” she recalls. “Here’s the thing: I have NEVER worn a yellow dress.”
However, she “knows for a fact” that her partner’s ex-girlfriend often wore a dress in the bright hue based on old stories he had told her.
“When I brought it up, he got defensive and said I was ‘reading too much into it’ and that ‘it doesn’t matter who the memory was about, it’s about the feeling,'” she writes.
Despite his insistence, the woman is left feeling “sick” and unsure how to move forward.
“Am I about to stand up at my wedding and listen to vows he basically recycled from his last relationship?” she questions, turning to Reddit for outside opinions.
The comments section was flooded with replies telling the poster to cancel the wedding while there’s still enough time to potentially get some money back.
“‘It doesn’t matter who the memory is about, it’s about the feeeling’ is INSANE. it most definitely matters,” one user replied. “ima be honest i wouldn’t go thru w this. sounds to me like he wishes he was marrying his ex so save yourself some pain and money and call it off.”
“You need to cancel this wedding now. Don’t waste your life with someone who is always thinking of someone else,” another added.
“This is about more than just words on a page. It’s about respect, authenticity, and whether your fiancé is truly present in your relationship and ready to marry you,” a third person chimed in. “Do not get married until you feel confident that this has been resolved and that your vows will be a genuine celebration of your relationship. It is far better to postpone a wedding than to go into a marriage with this level of distrust and hurt.”
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